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2023.03.21 12:16 writingtheides AITA for refusing to leave my dogs with my MIL?
My husband (28) and I (26) are going on vacation in a month. We will be gone for a week. Normally we would take our 2 dogs to stay at his aunt’s house as she takes good care of them and has a big yard. However, my FIL is having a surgery he won’t reschedule so his aunt can’t watch them that week because she is staying with FIL.
My husband paid my MIL $100 to watch them. She’s living with us currently and part of the arrangement is that she lets the dogs out 1x a day because we have a young puppy who needs to go out in the middle of our work day. We’ve had to sit down and talk with her twice already about not doing this. Even if she’s home all day sometimes she doesn’t do it. She once left them in the house all day with no potty breaks because she put on her pain patch and fell asleep for 17 hours straight.
We found out last night she’s again not been doing the one thing we ask her to do. I told my husband that I am uncomfortable with her keeping the dogs for a week unsupervised because she can’t even take them out once a day, let alone feed them twice and take care of their other needs. I would like to board them but he insists his mom is more trustworthy than “some stranger” and that she is the “best option.” His brother agrees with him and says she always takes good care of his dog, but I’m just not convinced.
This led to a big fight because I refuse to budge as the thought of my 6 month old puppy being crated for 9+ hours and having accidents in his crate makes me sick. He refuses to budge because he trusts his mom so much more than a boarding facility. AITA?
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2023.03.21 12:15 Aniseverse Open letter to my ex-host family
[NAME]
I am writing this email because the way you sent me away is simply unacceptable and I want to make a few things clear.
On Monday when we had a discussion you stated that you were happy with me and I was extremely happy as well. Even though I had only known you for 2 weeks I was praising you to all of my friends and family for being so kind. Then not even a week later, suddenly out of nowhere you have several issues with me and instead of having an adult discussion and trying to find solutions you immediately throw me out of your home. Because let's be real, you threw me out. I barely had time to pack my things and before I could even realize what happened I was already out of the house. You couldn't even do the decent thing of giving me a 2 weeks notice to potentially find a new host family. Without asking for what I think you already bought my flight home when I was still in shock and unable to advocate for myself.
I find this horribly unfair. Since you never communicated that you have a problem with me, I didn't even get a chance to fix whatever you were unsatisfied with. I thought you said communication is important to you? With this said I can confidently say that I was doing my job to the best of my knowledge and abilities. If you were unhappy with something you should have said so. The way you acted was frankly unprofessional and childish. If you decided that the au pair program was not for you, you should have said that instead of blaming me even though you never communicated any problems.
You say you are sorry this didn't work out. Well, imagine how sorry I am.
You do realize that I paused my college studies to join your family, right? You needed someone to start ASAP and I dropped everything to fly to you. I put my whole life on hold. Left my job, took 4 and a half-hour plane ride all for what? Now I'm back in [HOME COUNTRY] with no job and I cannot continue my studies until September. I'm wasting almost the whole year because of you. Not only that, warm clothes, and the gas needed for my dad to drive to and from the airport all put a financial strain on my family. Not everyone is as wealthy as you. I thought it was going to be fine since I will just make the money back, but now I’m left broke and guilty for making my family take care of me again.
Speaking about them. As a mother, can you imagine how my mom felt when she heard that you left me all alone in a city I never visited alone before? She was so scared, it broke my heart. Not like I wasn't heartbroken before. I was in such shock I couldn't sleep all night and haven’t slept well since.
You said something about our personalities not matching, but with all due respect, I don't believe you can judge a person in less than a month. 3 weeks is nothing, I was supposed to stay with you for half a year. I was just starting to adjust to your family and routine! Did you expect us to be besties the second I got there? You didn't even give me a chance to start to open up.
You did this to me knowing that it was my birthday as well. I "celebrated" it all alone in a studio apartment, with no cake, no gifts, no "happy birthday", bawling my eyes out all day. You seriously couldn’t stand me so much that you couldn’t wait one more day so I can celebrate at least? Who does that? How inconsiderate do you need to be to do such a thing? How can you do this to someone? I think it's clear that you saw me as someone who is "below" you, someone you can use and throw away. Which saddens me since I looked up to you greatly. I thought we were part of a team in making sure your household ran well. I have never met someone more cruel than you.
Your actions were immature, unfair, unprofessional and simply cruel. I don't think I'll forgive the way you treated me until the day I die. I only ask you to try to imagine how would you feel if you were in my situation. You ruined my whole year and if I want to au pair again in the future I’ll have to explain to potential host families this whole mess of a situation, which will reflect on me poorly as well without a doubt. You made sure that my chances of au pairing again are lower. Who will hire me when I tell them „Oh yeah, my previous host family sent me away without a 2 weeks notice after I was only with them for 3 weeks”? Not like I feel like au pairing again after this, which is a shame. [HOST COUNTRY] was my dream country for many years, but you soured it for me for the rest of my life.
I'm not writing this email to gain answers by the way. In fact, all of your numbers and emails will be blocked. Do not try to contact me. I only hope that you don't treat your next au pair like this. If I were to tell you the truth I don’t think you should participate in the au pair program at all with this kind of attitude.
Do better.
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2023.03.21 12:15 guessmyrealname100 I (f/25) am tied between my ex (m/35) and true love (m/56)
TLDR: I (f/25) am tied between my ex (m/35) and true love (m/56)
This isn’t an easy one. Both of the men I’ll talk about are very committed and devoted to me.
The first guy let’s call him Kevin - Kevin (m/35) and I were together for 10 months before I broke up with him, we’ve left the no contact period and talking again.
The pros:
He is devoted hardworking and had all the values I wanted in a man I’d start a family with: Family-orientated, hardworking, good career (earns 5k per month) he made me feel feminine and was the typical problem-solver kind of man always ready to fix anything that felt wrong. To start a family with him makes sense - we have an age gap as well so if I went with him we’d be ready to buy a house next year and start a family which for my age in our economy (England) is quite amazing! My mum also lovers him.
The cons:
He was very controlling, neurotic, and jealous if I ever went out without texting him (which I usually did) he would overreact and make me feel guilty for something I’d never done aka feel like a cheating whore. He always had something bad to say about my friends and my clothes even though when confronted he said he didn’t mean these things badly he just saw ways of how things could be ‘better’. I eventually understood that his behaviour simply came from the fact that he has a tendency to be very negative and insecure which he projects to those he loves. I broke up with him a few months ago and after our no contact period we met every week or so and I notice he’s changed. He’s not so much on his judgemental and critical high-horse anymore and I feel a lot more respected. We are thinking of going away for a week to test if we can work.
Guy 2 is also older, many of you would’ve assumed HE would’ve been the controlling jealous possessive one but he never was. I met…let’s call him Jay. I met Jay online when I was 22, I had always had a teacher student fantasy and his wisdom and age really drew me in. We started a casual thing and met up sporadically a few times per month but messaged each other every single day. What started off as just a fling started to become quite special. I realised I’d never connected to anyone like I did to him in my life and the love we shared was nothing I’d ever experience and still to this day have ever experienced. He was very romantic and wrote me poems and songs and was extremely devoted to me to the point of crying whenever I cried and wanted my happiness to be the focal point of all of our meet ups.
The pros:
We have the same values: honesty, spirituality, empathy, self-exploration, open-mindedness and he is the most gentle kind person I’ve ever met. I’m quite empathetic and compassionate and he’s really only person who I’ve met to radiate on the same level with me. We are both creative musical and open people so our interests have always alligned. Once I realised we were getting closer and I said we should stop talking but since 22 until I met my ex, we were on and off for 2 years because it was just really hard not to talk again, we were never officially though I gave my heart more to him than Kevin. There’s no one I’d want to start a family more with than him, our children would be raised on love and tender devotion.
The cons:
With the age gap all the issues would come when he retired. If we started a family say when I was 30 he’d be 61 and once he retired the family would have to depend on my sole salary, to add onto that I’d have to be a carer not only for my kids but him too and have to live with the reality of most likely losing him when I would be 50 and him 80. Not only that but my kid(s) would be out the house by then so I’d be left alone caring for him and also my parents (who are actually younger than him) my mum has a life long disease so I’ve been raised to be more responsible than others Im also the oldest of my siblings they’re 10 and 15 years younger than me so my tween and teen years were spent basically being a love in babysitter and housekeeper. A lifetime of taking on a caring role for both my partner, my mum, my dad when he’s old too my children AND having had to also deal with being the oldest and looking after my siblings growing up just feels quite entrapping to be honest.
To add I’m aware I have a thing for older men and I love the protection I feel from them but would you think it’s best to leave these two men completely and try and find someone closer to my age? My biological dad left when I was young but my new ‘dad’ married my mum before I was 5 and actually adopted me so I’ve always had a father figure BUT perhaps there’s some strange fixation to older guys going on and that’s why I’m so tied between these two?
Lastly to add with Kevin I’d have a very functional relationship, be in a nice house and he always talked about me being a stay at home mum which he though was a dutiful role (many young girls dream of this but I actually find that the money I make per month now is enough for a good life and I doubt he’d be able to give me the same amount if I stayed at home (maybe though as he does earn 5k per month)…I also hate the idea of being dependent on him for money knowing how much he likes control) he can be very respectful in every sense other than when he’s feeling negative and seems to pick apart everything wrong about life, himself, the day and worst ‘me’ he’s the typical ‘Virgo’ and ‘Scorpio’ kind of man and very dominant assertive and not necessarily the most agreeable person but I’m the only person that truly softens him down. He also gets anxious quite easily and has insomnia but when I’m in his life that’s the happiest he is.
With Jay, I’d live quite a romantic life full of softness and airy fairy love and fluffy relationship vibes. But he’s also quite forgetful, disorganised and a bit of a last minute person that’s late to everything (so me but to the next level) he has in the past had trouble remembering to pay bills which also makes me worry that family life together won’t just have issues at the end when he’s aging but from the beginning plus he doesn’t own a house or car and seems to always prefers living in council flats despite now earning over 60k now (also to mention when we were talking he moved into a nicer neighbourhood to try and win me over but after we stopped talking he moved back into a council flat). Jay wants to start taking again but said he doesn’t want what happened last year to happen where I say I’ve found someone closer to my age and disappear.
Perhaps I should do the week together test with Kevin and make a decision then do a week together with Jay? Let me know what you think? Choose the guy I get on we’ll with looks good on paper (and very handsome) could start a successful functional family with but also know that he has controlling tendencies or choose the guy that’s 30 years my senior basically my soulmate but practically a future and family together may be extremely overwhelming both financially and emotionally.
I guess it’s also good to mention what I myself want and value, I want a family before 30 but also want to travel and start a side huddle before I have them. I value empathy and kindness a lot but I’m also the type of girl that needs security in my man, I need him to be my rock, and not just provide security emotionally but financially too, I need to feel like he can be someone I can depend on and know will fix things when the chips are down, masculinity is a big one for me.
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2023.03.21 12:14 Free-Helicopter2577 My Grandpa used to be cool, now he's just an asshole
My (15M) Grandpa (64M) is now a retired seaman. I don't remember any exact details about his past, just little snippets. But I do know that he married my grandma (60F) around the early 80's, then had my Dad who became the oldest brother of 3 other kids.
According to my grandma, ever since my Dad and his brother and sisters were little, he always had issues with his anger. Doing things ranging from slapping my dad across the face to yelling at them with such force that you really can't help but cry, even if he hadn't laid a hand on you.
Although, things sort of changed when they started getting older. More specifically, when I was born. I was his first grandson. And according to Grandma, he used to spoil me rotten. He used to be the one who fed me a lot, and often even gave me a lot of gifts whenever he was around and not on a boat.
And then my little brother arrived. I never really had an issue where I would think that my parents or my family from my mother's side had any sort of "favoritism" or "bias" towards my little brother (or if there was, it was probably unnoticeable) but when it came to the people on my father's side, specifically my grandfather, the favoritism was, to say the least, more noticeable. I noticed them paying more attention towards my little brother (not talking to me when I try to call for their attention), and always spoiling him rotten with things like a bicycle or stuff like that. But again, it never really bothered me much.
He retired in 2016. And theres sort of a timeframe when he seemed to treat us equally for a time. We would always go to the mall with him and my LB and we would always do things together. I enjoyed spending time in his home. So much so that every weekend I would even ask Dad to bring us to his house so we could hang out with Grandpa.
However, as I grew older, he started to noticeably change.
He's been more moody and in some weeks we even had to cancel going to his house because he was apparently "not in the mood"
The most noticeable incident that paved my way of thinking of him, the event that made me see who he REALLY was, happened when I was just 9.
One of my biggest chores at that time was to always let our dog, Zion, outside of the house. I would always do it every afternoon after I arrive from school. However, I would always just tie him in front of the house since most of the time I can't even hold him without either being dragged or almost killed when he runs. And on this particular afternoon, that was what I was doing. I tied my dog outside our house and I was sitting somewhere in the close distance waiting for Zion to take a dump. And thats when Grandpa came in.
He was FURIOUS. I greeted him and he just yelled "WHAT ARE YOU DOING? CANT YOU SEE YOUR KILLING THE DOG?" and me being dumb and thinking that this was one of his jokes, I replied with "I tied him there and I'm waiting for him to poop" and he walked towards the dog and started untying its leash from the gate. He then yelled at me "GET INSIDE!" Now with a more stern tone. That's when I knew I was in trouble.
And so I went inside. Thinking that I was probably gonna get yelled at by a lot, but boy was I wrong.
There was no yelling. Instead he just went inside the house, grabbed me by my uniform collar, then grabbed me by my jaw. After that, he slammed my back against the living room wall, and stared at my eyes, like a psycho. That's when I knew, I wasn't just in trouble. No, in other troubles, I just usually think "Oh no, I shouldnt have done that" and start regretting my actions after. But now, I felt no sense of regret. Not because of the fact that I was being rebellious, but because all I felt during that time was pure, unfiltered, fear. Now I have felt plenty of fear in my life, whether it be from ghosts and shit, but this was different. It's like HE KNOWS specifically what to do to make you feel this way. The way he stares into your eyes, looking like he has killing intent, and your just left there thinking "I'm gonna die"
He never yelled. Not once. He was just mumbling to my gaping face "Do you want your dog to die? Huh? HUH?" with every "huh" he started shaking me upwards.
I don't remember any details of what happened in between of that moment and the end of that moment, but the end was what always stuck with me and always had, even to this day.
"I swear to God, I'm gonna choke you. I've been holding my anger back from you, oh yes I've been! DONT WAIT UNTIL MY BLOOD REACHES MY HEAD!"
Reminder that he was saying these things to a 9-year-old who still doesn't know what he did wrong.
Nobody still knows that happened. Only I do. Suprisingly, even my neighbors never seemed to notice it happening, either.
The thing that bothered me the most is, I STILL dont know what I did wrong to "kill our dog". And to this day, Zion is still alive and kicking at 8 years old.
Anyways, I expected to be talked to him about what happened. You know, sort of like an intervention kinda thing. But no. No talks, no apologies. He was just acting like nothing had happened.
I thought he had some form of DID, since I NEVER expected him being able to talk or yell like that, but my other experiences would soon destroy that theory.
Fast forward to the pandemic, and I think that's where he changed.
I won't really go into much detail since this is private family matters but basically his younges daughter, my Aunt, got pregnant with someone whom most of my family didn't approve of. And then, my baby cousin, whom we'll call "Shiela" was born in 2021.
And during that time too, my Mom began focusing on her and Dad's business a lot more, which meant that I had to stay at their house, and go to school from there.
It's been about 4 years since that incident happened, and by now (by some miracle) I seemed to have forgiven him for what happened.
And his attitudes started to show a lot more.
I dont really wanna make this whole story a lot longer so Imma just list the things hes done.
- On a beach trip, had everyone drink contaminated water and swore that what he gave us wasn't contaminated. The numerous counts of guests (including me) getting Diarrhea disproved that (No apologies, no talks given)
- On the same trip, after we arrive home, yells at ME for pushing younger cousin aside (not even a full push just a lil tussle) despite being told I needed to go first because of Diarrhea that HE caused (No apologies, no talk)
- One time after arriving home from a long walk, goes home in a grumpy mood, calls me downstairs, I tell him "What is it?" and he yells at me to "fix my attitude" then later on while I was taking a shower, he OPENS THE SHOWER CURTAIN WIDE and sees me butt naked, then just mumbles at me "You better fix that attitude of yours cause I've been holding my anger back on you!" Again, I do not know what I did. (he says that a lot) (No apologies, no talk)
- Maids me around. I'm pretty fine with chores but the way he asks me around seems super demeaning. It's come to the point where I've started to hate hearing my first name.
I have many more experiences, but it would be too much to list lol. I would like some tips on how I could deal with this situation. I've considered some decent measures, while some drastic like running away etc. But I would like some tips that you guys can give me on how I could deal with this man. If yall need context with anything or assurances, feel free to ask :)
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2023.03.21 12:14 kavyaorganicfarm Top 12 Best Ideas To Care Your Plant More
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- Temperature: Plants grow best within a certain temperature range. The optimal temperature varies depending on the plant species.
- Soil: Good quality soil provides plants with the nutrients, water, and support they need to grow. The right type of soil varies depending on the plant species and its growing conditions.
https://preview.redd.it/m24ws29ns2pa1.jpg?width=1500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a54634ce7f25dd0fab724ec95313f43af0f3151f In addition to the basic needs of light, water, nutrients, carbon dioxide, oxygen, temperature, and soil, plants may require some extra care to thrive. Some examples of extra care that plants may need include: - Humidity: Some plants require higher humidity levels to thrive. You can increase humidity by misting your plants or using a humidifier.
- Pruning: Regular pruning can help promote healthy growth and prevent disease. Remove any dead or damaged leaves, and trim any overgrown stems to promote healthy growth.
- Support: Some plants may need support as they grow. You can use stakes or trellises to help keep them upright.
- Pest control: Plants can be vulnerable to pests and diseases. Identify and treat any pest or disease problems early to prevent them from spreading and damaging your plants.
- Repotting: When your plant outgrows its current pot, it's time to repot it into a larger pot with fresh soil.
- Cleaning: Dust and dirt can accumulate on your plant's leaves, blocking sunlight and reducing photosynthesis. Clean your plants regularly to keep them healthy.
- Temperature control: Some plants may require specific temperature conditions to thrive. Be sure to place your plants in a spot that provides the right temperature for your plant.
- How can I make my plant happy?
Here are some tips for making your plant happy: - Give it the right amount of light: Most plants need a good amount of light to grow and thrive. Be sure to place your plant in a spot where it can get adequate light for its specific needs.
- Water it properly: Water is essential for plant growth, but it's important to water your plant properly. Be sure to water your plant enough, but don't overwater it, as this can lead to root rot.
- Provide good quality soil: Plants need good quality soil with the proper nutrients and drainage to grow well. Make sure you use soil that is suitable for your plant's specific needs.
- Give it the right amount of nutrients: Plants need a balanced diet of nutrients to grow well. Fertilize your plant regularly with a suitable fertilizer for its specific needs.
- Prune it when necessary: Pruning is important for maintaining the health and shape of your plant. Remove any dead or damaged leaves, and trim any overgrown stems to promote healthy growth.
- Clean its leaves: Dust and dirt can accumulate on your plant's leaves, blocking sunlight and reducing photosynthesis. Clean your plant's leaves regularly to keep it healthy.
- Check for pests and diseases: Plants can be vulnerable to pests and diseases. Identify and treat any pest or disease problems early to prevent them from spreading and damaging your plant.
- Give it some love: Plants respond positively to human interaction, so talk to your plant, sing to it, or even give it a gentle touch. Studies have shown that this can help promote healthy growth and make your plant happier.
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2023.03.21 12:13 Beautiful_Buddy_6575 How to Watch Cocaine Bear Online For Free?
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Is Cocaine Bear on Paramount Plus?
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2023.03.21 12:12 Significant-Dig-7080 Is there anyway to get my ex back? M28 F24 dated for 4 1/2 years been broken up for 2 years.
Hi,
I am male 28 and my ex is female 24. We were together for 4 1/2 years 3 years being while I was in the army still. I'll try to shorten up the beat I can it's a long bit of events. Everything was going so well in my relationship we were talking about getting married then 2 major events happened in our relationship that probably caused the fire to start to burn. 1st event I was not able to come home even though after promising to come home to be my exes date at her brothers wedding due to me being forced to go on a deployment to Poland. 2nd major event that lit the fire to the start of our relationship breaking apart was the day I finally got out of the army while coming home my really close freind in the Army killed himself and I blame myself cause that same night he did the act I was on a phone call helping my ex through an issue she was having.
I then became very depressed in which I coped with eating and playing video games. My ex never knew this cause I tried to deal with this myself but while living with eachother for 1 1/2 years of being out she finally called it quits when I got to the point of weighing 416lbs and was just plain lazy (mind you this was during the last bad year covid 2021 march) well I let her stay with me for another year cause I didn't want her to be homeless during covid. That year I hoped we could get back together so I would begg and act real needy to get her back into my life. Well she moved out in 2022 and took everything we ever bought together with her including our two dogs. Well we stayed freinds till about after Thanksgiving in which i was still begging her and being needy for her to come back. In which I finally ticked her off due to her saying I threatened her and after trying to call her a few times to straighten things out she blocked me on everything except snapchat and email. (She did delete me off snapchat).
It's been almost 4 months since I was blocked by her. I found out through a mutual freind she has been seeing a guy and starting seeing him shortly before the month she blocked me. I'm doing good now I have been working on me and trying to develop myself into a better person. I read Robert gloves no more Mr nice guy and that has put my whole life into perspective now I know I am a nice guy and fit right into that saying. I have been going to the gym sometimes twice a day and so far I am down to 248lbs and have been on a really healthy diet and don't drink or eat anything that's high in carbs or greasy anymore. My question is there anyway for my ex to come back into my life so I have another shot with her and if so how do I get her to unblock me and give me another chance.
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2023.03.21 12:12 FoundationOne7963 Where To Watch Cocaine Bear Online For Free
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They're not on Hulu, either! But prices for this streaming service currently start at $6.99 per month, or $69.99 for the whole year. For the ad-fre eversion, it's $12.99 per month, $64.99 per month for Hulu + Live TV, or $70.99 for the ad-free Hulu + Live TV.
Is Cocaine Bear on Disney Plus?
No sign of Cocaine Bear on Disney +,which is proof that the House of Mouse doesn't have its hands on every franchise! Home tothe likes of 'Star Wars', 'Marvel', 'Pixar', National Geographic', ESPN, STAR and so much more, Disney+ is available at the annual membership fee of $79.99, or the monthly cost of$7.99. If you're a fan of even one of these brands, then signing up to Disney+ is definitely worth it, and there aren't any ads, either.
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2023.03.21 12:11 GuestOutside641 Where Can I Watch 'Cocaine Bear' Free Online Streaming?
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Is Cocaine Bear on Hulu?
They're not on Hulu, either! But prices for this streaming service currently start at $6.99 per month, or $69.99 for the whole year. For the ad-fre eversion, it's $12.99 per month, $64.99 per month for Hulu + Live TV, or $70.99 for the ad-free Hulu + Live TV.
Is Cocaine Bear on Disney Plus?
No sign of Cocaine Bear on Disney +,which is proof that the House of Mouse doesn't have its hands on every franchise! Home tothe likes of 'Star Wars', 'Marvel', 'Pixar', National Geographic', ESPN, STAR and so much more, Disney+ is available at the annual membership fee of $79.99, or the monthly cost of$7.99. If you're a fan of even one of these brands, then signing up to Disney+ is definitely worth it, and there aren't any ads, either.
Is Cocaine Bear on HBO Max?
Sorry, Cocaine Bear is not available on HBO Max. There is a lot of content from HBO Max for $14.99 a month, such a subscription is ad-free and it allows you to access all the titles in the library of HBO Max. The streaming platform announced an ad-supported version that costs a lot less at the price of $9.99 per month.
Is Cocaine Bear on Amazon Video?
Unfortunately, Cocaine Bear is not available to stream for free on Amazon Prime Video. However, you can choose others hows and Movies to watch from there as it has a wide variety of shows and Movies that you can choose from for $14.99 a month.
Is Cocaine Bear on Peacock?
Cocaine Bear is not available to watch on Peacock at the time of writing. Peacock offers a subscription costing$4.99 a month or $49.99 per year for a premium account. As their namesake, the streaming platform is free with content out in the open, however, limited.
Is Cocaine Bear on Paramount Plus?
Cocaine Bear is not on Paramount Plus. Paramount Plus has two subscription options: the basic version ad-supported Paramount+ Essential service costs$4.99 per month, and an ad-free premium plan for $9.99 per month. costs$4.99 per month, and an ad-free premium plan for $9.99 per month. yhdd
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2023.03.21 12:11 1czl I'm done with this life
This is just an update by my part after long time of suffering
First of all i never expected that me and my family situation is gonna become as it is.
Our life is unbearable, we have been suffering for a long time, but i have never gave up and was always helpful and thus i kept seeking solutions for our situation: job/lawyer etc....
And i couldn't find so my only options left is too seek that people's and friends knowledge.
And i was hopeful, i asked my friends and unfortunately none could help me
So i asked reddit, expecting many kind people to help me by reffering me to a good lawyer or tell me about a good job opportunity, and there was some very few people who actually did help me by giving me some lawyer pages links and some amazing tips and I'm forever grateful for them.
But i was completely shocked by the rest of the community accusing me of scamming people, by giving false reasons.
It actually broke me up, i couldn't handle all of this hate and i completely regret asking for people's help
What's my fault if i couldn't handle doing nothing and sitting in home waiting for nothing to change in our life What's my fault if my last resort was asking for people's help
And unfortunately all i got from my last resort which i was hopeful from is hatery.
And thus i can't handle it anymore
I give up on our situation I give up on life
And please if you know a lawyer or someone who can help in my situation and reading this, don't message me, I'm grateful for you trying to help but I'm sorry i can no longer handle people's hatery thinking I'm scamming people by asking a lawyer, i really don't understand what i did wrong to get all of this hate
I no longer need any help from anyone, and i no longer care about anything in life and i won't delete my past posts so they be a memory on how when i used my last resort all i got is hatery and accusations
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2023.03.21 12:10 Monstertim1 The kraken has a song to sing, and the first verse is the sound of you drowning.
I always loved to swim in the ocean.
For some reason, I could hold my breath for long periods of time, which let me stay under the surface for an ungodly amount of time. I also had good arm and leg strength, which is how I can swim around quickly. My parents knew this ability, and they often took me to the beach for me to enjoy swimming around for hours, swimming around like my life depended on it.
The sea was a big part of my life, and it was like family to me, I loved it, and I never wanted it to go.
When I turned just about 23, I got a job as a diver. My task was to explore the seafloor, as only 5 percent of the sea was discovered, but due to my unique lungs, not something that my doctor can even explain, I can last just about half an hour underwater without air. Some have joked that I am just a waterproof robot, but it's hard to explain to people who don't listen.
“Are you ready for your next mission?”
Those were the words of my boss informing me of my task. I needed to explore the area around an area called the “Challenger Deep,” which is located at the southern end of the Mariana Trench. It's pretty deep, and water pressure can be difficult to deal with, but despite my boss insisting that I get a submarine to help with my safety, I promised him that I’d come back in one piece, and even if I die, my research could help a new generation of sea exploration, which he finally agreed and let me go. I was sitting on the boat taking me there, and I was slowly approaching the destination. The boat driver slowed down the boat as we were directly above the Challenger Deep. “Just note, I was ordered that once you leave the boat, you aren’t allowed back on until at least an hour. No turning back, are you sure you’re ready?”
I nodded my head. And after putting on my diver gear so I can see, and attaching a camera (which was waterproof, which should be obvious) to me so I can record my findings, I plunged into the water, and started swimming down.
The sea was slowly getting darker and darker. I haven’t seen any sea animals around yet, which was a little concerning, but I couldn’t go back, so I pushed forward and continued to swim down.
I turned on my flashlight once it got too dark where I couldn’t see anything. I couldn’t see any organisms this deep. Normally, this would be the part of the sea where you find animals like sharks or special fish, but nothing. Did I come at the wrong time, or am I this stupid as a human male to notice anything? Whatever it is, it truly beats me.
Once I swam deep enough, I saw something, a shipwreck. It was worn, and torn to bits. It's like a kraken assaulted it and dragged it to the sea, to a place no one (except me and maybe the chance of a fish or something to see) to ever find it.
“Of course, that can’t be the case. Krakens don’t exist, right?” My thoughts pondered, as I swam even closer to the ship.
I swam inside the boat through a hole that was on the outside. It looked like a place where people would live. There were cabinets, dining items, and I even found a chest, filled with nothing.
I truly thought something was here, which is why I am down here. My camera was recording all of this, which was a good idea, since I probably couldn’t prove this all on my own. But after a few minutes of looking around, I just realized it's been 25 minutes. I needed air. If I could swim back up quickly, I could get some oxygen and swim back down. So after I said my goodbyes to the ship, I swam out of the ship and started my swim to the surface.
But the sea had other plans.
There was a rush of water, and I was almost blown off course. I saw a bunch of slimy tentacle-like tendrils, as it was followed up by a metallic screech. And then I saw its horrifying face. The face of a massive squid, or in other words, a kraken.
I spent no time trying to swim away, but it swung its tentacle at me, barely missing me. I panicked so badly that I dropped my flashlight. I couldn’t swim back down to get it. Even if I managed to evade the kraken, going to grab the light would waste time for me to reach the surface, which could lead to drowning.
I was distracted, and it grabbed me, its slimy tentacle wrapping around me tightly. I felt a massive rush of air leave my lungs. It felt as if my rib cage was being damaged, and I would be squeezed to death. It held me in front of it, and it squeezed me even harder. Normally, if I was on the surface, I’d scream in pain, but I’m under water, I can’t do that. No one can hear me.
No one can see me.
It wasn’t doing anything, it was just tightening its grip as it gawked at me. And then, still holding me, showed its spiny teeth, and was pulling me closer and closer. I tried to squirm free, but its grip was too tight, I couldn’t break free.
I had a small pocket knife for emergency purposes, and it happened to be right where my camera was, on a rope-like necklace. I tore it off, and I proceeded to stab it deep into the kraken. It screeched in pain, as it lost grip of me because it was too focused on the wound. I took the knife out of it so it could bleed out, although from its massive size, it can’t die from blood loss from a wound so minor for its size.
I managed to escape the sights of the kraken. But I ran out of air, and after trying to push through, it wasn’t enough, and I drowned.
But I was revived later via CPR. The boat driver saw my body, and broke his orders to get my limp body to the boat where he soon drove me to shore. I was sent to the hospital, and a X-Ray scan showed that, except my skull, my entire body, especially my rib area, received significant damage, and while it wasn’t lethal and I could still live, I would need intensive recovery, and too much movement could slow down the process.
I was driven back to my job. They decided that due to the injury, I should take my stuff home as I was going to take a break from working, so I was forcibly suspended, or whatever the word is. When we arrived, I immediately went to the bathroom and took off my shirt. There was a massive black bruise on my stomach, it looked like a line with circles. Touching it hurt badly, obviously, but this was a new type of pain. It felt as if I was being hit with burning rocks in the bruised area each time I touched it. I put my shirt back on, grabbed my stuff and left the workplace, driving home.
We didn’t tell the doctors and nurses about the footage or my adventure down into the Challenger Deep. They didn’t think they would take us seriously. We decided not to publicly upload the footage to prevent anything rash happening.
But, the past is the past. There is nothing I can do.
I still love the ocean, though.
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2023.03.21 12:10 hun-_- Footsteps
Hearing is a miraculous gift, thanks to it we can feel the sound of all of nature's wonders, like birds singing or a baby's laughter, or maybe even impeding danger.That's what my ears caught a couple of nights ago, but i am not grateful for it.
It is 4:55 A.M. and i am trapped in my bedroom with someone (or better something) that wants me dead trying to breach in. I want to give you a bit of context quickly: i am staying at my aunt's house for a few weeks to take care of the place because she just had surgery and needs to stay in the hospital for a long time.
This all started four nights ago,when i woke up at 2:30 A.M. to use the bathroom. My aunt's house has two floors, my bedroom was located on the top floor and the bathroom was on the ground one. While i was on the toilet i heard super fast footsteps run past the door, which was strange since I was the only person in the house. I decided to ignore this weird phenomenon and go back to bed.
During the day i never thought of what had happened the night before,until the next night. This time i heard the footsteps while i was still in my room, they were bashing on the ground floor at an insane speed. "What the fuck?" I thought,while being terrified for my life. They randomly stopped,just like the first time,only this time they didnt come from the bathroom area,but from the kitchen. After that,they moved again, this time to the living room and then to the dining room,but they never came close to the second floor.
Tonight was different. I heard them rush up the stairs and stop in front of my door. Two knocks came afterwards,accompanied by my aunt's voice: "Alex,let me in dear,the sink isn't working", said that creature,attempting to act like my aunt but failing miserably. It seemed like this creature could kind of imitate human speech but not in a realistic way. The voice was monotone and the way it pronounced words felt.... off. It knocked again, this time asking the same question but in a different tone, a demanding one.
I stayed frozen in my spot,not daring to move or respond to whatever that shit behind my door was,even though it kept begging to be let in. Its words slowly became cries, brutal and animalistic cries that even the most mentally resilient would have found unbearable. Eventually it stopped and the footsteps started again,this time going downstairs.
You might be thinking that thing should be gone by now right? Then why do i still feel its presence lurking behind that door? I am afraid of what will happen to me when i will eventually have to open it since if i don't i will starve to death.The only question i have right now is why was i its target, did it know i heard the footsteps every single night or did it just randomly decide to feast on me? I'll try to keep you updated if i survive.
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2023.03.21 12:10 ThrowRAJustGiveMeAct My(28m) Girlfriend(24f) is being emotionally manipulative and maybe more
Hi everyone,
Wanted to get some other thoughts on this as its been weighting me down for a while now. I have been going out with her for nearly 5 months now and there are some things that im worried about. I'm just going to put them in random order as i think of them. Is my Gf being manipulative or am i being an ass?
- She gets bleak at me when I dont respond within the hour, I'm usually pretty good but if I get busy and dont respond then she gets sad. Ive told her that i prefer calling for a proper back and forth convo but she still gets sad when i dont respond. During the work day we both understand that we're working and will take long to respond but its after work when the lack of responses gets her. She says that I'm just given her "left over time" and "squeezing me into bits and pieces of your life". But we chat alot during the day, we get on calls and voice notes. I get on Teamviewer to help her with her work even. Every day i ask her how her day was, whats she eating for dinner etc.
- She pushed me into saying i love her really quickly imo, she said it first to me at around the 3rd month into our relationship. I wasn't ready for it yet, but she made me feel bad coz she told me now that she's said it to me im leaving her hanging.
- We went to a music festival the other week and while we were waiting and sitting on a bench for a friend to leave I was just quickly responding to family that I was okay which she commented on before. She let out two softs "Ow's" and I didnt immediately respond to ask if she was okay. She then proceeded to walk around arms crossed for the rest of the music festival and not talk to me besides the one or two worded answers when im trying to figure things out. (She did this before the one DJ who i really wanted to see and she knew that). Later that night at home I confronted her about this and how immature it was and it kinda ruined the end of the night, she still said I didnt ask her quick enough what made her sore. I told her I wanted to leave and she started crying and saying it would break her heart.
- She bring up having kids and marriage alot. Even early into the relationship, she mentioned a few times how our future and all that stuff could be with marriage, kids and living together. We both have spoken and said we want a serious relationship. And she did say "she doesnt want to scare me away and its hypothetical" but I have told her that its something I only want in a few years and not now and she agreed. But she still brings it up here and there. She's said how she wanted me to be her last boyfriend, her last guy.
- "Security net". So I'm fortunate that I come from a not poor family and I have a good job and no debt. I save money and invest it. She comes from quite a troubled household. Her mom moved to another country and said that she doesnt want her (even though she still calls but then says horrible things), her dad is still around but doesnt live with her. And has also lied to the rest of the family about how he left her alone for along time. So the extended family doesnt trust her. So shes lives alone. Has some debt. I understand thats why that also makes her somewhat clingy as she was starved for attention when she was younger, but I make time for her to be with her, spend nights and days together, go on dates and different activities and be close. So shes mentioned how I have a security net to fall back on if things go wrong, while she doesn't. And I get that and it makes sense. But there's not much I can do. I said I was there for her and shes got me. I do want to support her but I just didn't know how else to respond, but she was still sad. (I get this one though). She also says that I abandon her alot when not responding quick enough or if I have to work through the weekend and im not able to see her. Wanted to mention this in the context of this point.
There's probably a few small other points but I'll add them into an edit if I remember, im just tired now.
So what does everyone think? thanks for the long read.
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2023.03.21 12:09 duffbrewerytour Something would watch me at my boyfriends house
I always believed in the paranormal, I’ve had experiences my whole life. I feel it’s a common thread in my family. Both my mother and grandmother are exactly the same. I was dating a guy in my early 20s. He was a little older and owned a beautiful old home. I remember seeing the exterior for the first time and just fell in love with it. That’s until I stepped inside, it was instant, that punch in the stomach feeling. I knew something was really off about this house. I didn’t say anything as it wasn’t my place, I just hoped the feeling would pass. I went over a few times but I wouldn’t stay the night.
The first time I stayed over my boyfriend went for a morning jog.This was the first time I was alone in the house. I decided to use this time to shower and get ready for the day. It was strange as soon as I got up to walk to the bathroom the feeling of being watched was extreme. I wasn’t wearing clothes and the feeling of needing to cover up was so strange. I brushed it off and jumped in the shower.
I felt the same feeling the whole time in the shower. Imagine showering in-front of a creepy stranger, that’s how it felt. I went to reach for the towel on the towel rack and couldn’t find it. Strange because that’s where it was before I began to shower, I made sure of it. I step out and it’s on the counter by the sink. I don’t know how it got there and that’s when I see it. A massive hand print on the steamed up mirror, it was clear as day and looked fresh. I absolutely freaked. The hand was elongated and almost claw like. I grabbed my towel and locked myself in the bedroom until my boyfriend returned.
There’s obviously a lot more to this story but I’ll leave it here for now. Let me know if you want to hear more.
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2023.03.21 12:09 pascallllllllllll i feel like all i’m capable of is being sad
I have been very sad for a long time and have never really addressed it to anyone. I’ve tried to talk to therapists, but it’s hard for me to express myself and I haven’t stuck with any of them. How I feel is hard to talk about with others, because I feel so ashamed about it. But even though it’s hard to talk about, I still really just want to feel listened to.
Life just feels so hopeless. There’s no reason for why it does. Logically I know that my life is OK and things are fine, and still I cry every day and feel so worthless. I am a full time university student and until recently I had worked two jobs. I live with my mum and I have my own money and I have a cat that I love. I am graduating with honours and I’m the first person in my family to graduate from university. My boyfriend and I just celebrated our one year anniversary. There are so many good things in my life that I can recognise, but I don’t feel any joy from them. Instead I just constantly feel so overwhelmingly sad. I cry on the commute to school and to work. I cry on walks with my dog. I cry instead of going to bed. My boyfriend knows that I feel down a lot of the time, but I haven’t told him how severe it is. I quit one of my jobs and have considered so many times dropping out of school. I do really well in school but I just hate being there. I hate being anywhere.
Sometimes there are happy moments, but they are always interrupted by my feelings. It’s like whenever I actually feel something good, my brain reminds itself that I’m just going to be sad later, and so the good stops and sadness comes back early.
I have contemplated dying in the past but never went through with it. I had one close attempt, but I got drunk first, and my family came home before I could. They joke about that now because they see it as a funny moment, and I don’t have the courage to tell them what I was planning to do. Although I haven’t told them, it still really hurts me when they laugh about it. Once I called the crisis hotline and got put on hold. I didn’t talk to anyone because I hung up.
My family has always been a very emotionally stunted family, which is why I feel it is so hard to talk. I journal a lot and express myself there, but I can’t say what I feel aloud. I have tried to, but I can only do it indirectly, and no one gets what I mean. I feel like journaling doesn’t even help because all it does is give me books and books of proof of how miserable I am. I tried for awhile to only write about good things and happy moments that I feel, but that made everything so much worse, because even after months it only had a few entries.
I’m venting here now because I got the closest I’ve ever gotten to opening up today, and still no one got it. I told my mum and my brother that I cry every day. I think if someone told me that, I would be really worried about them. But they didn’t react at all. It makes me frustrated, to think they thought I wasn’t serious. It makes me really sad, to then think of what it would take to get them to know that I’m serious. I love my mum but she has a habit of making everything a contest. Like sadness can be competitive. The way she reacted just made my feelings seem so insignificant and worthless compared to hers.
I don’t know where to go from here. All I ever do is keep moving forward because that’s all I know how to do, but I am feeling so exhausted. I don’t know how my life can be relatively good and still I can feel so miserable all the time. I feel like a failure of a human being for not being able to work right, because everything else is working right, and it’s just me that’s wrong. Even when I was little I felt like everyone else must be robots or something, because everyone seemed able to tune into something that I just couldn’t. Is this what it feels like for other people? Is everyone else just good at managing it? I went on a three hour walk in the night the other day and layed down in the snow and cried and thought about how much I wanted to die. I told a friend about the walking and laying part, and he just thought it was funny.
Even now in just trying to post this, I kept getting an error and cried about it, like it’s a sign to just not talk about anything and shut up. I feel so isolated in how sad I am and that it consumes everything that I do.
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2023.03.21 12:09 wife_emailer i dont know what parent to live with.
theres so many pros and cons to living at my moms and at my dads at my moms theres a lot of pros but majority are cons. my moms my absolute bestfriend and her boyfriends a nice guy but the environment i'm in is not okay for an African american lesbian
im in a country place and its really homophobic here i feel like i cant embrace myself or my culture without being picked on. ive been called the n word and the f slur constantly and i feel ike i have to hold back my personality at home because my stepdad doesnt like it . i have no friends out here that i feel comfortable talking to and hanging out with and the only friends i do have basically use me as an excuse that they arent homophobic. my mental health has been dragged down significantly these last 3 years ive been here. im a freshman and my teachers are still giving us bathroom passes and saying we cant be on our phones and some days i just need a break.
my moms boyfriend tends to comment on my eating a lot i cant handle certain textures when eating so im extremely picky and he always makes fun of me for that and gives me shit for it like i can just change my tastebuds like i wish i could eat certain things like other kids i wish i could gain weight. like one time he commented that im so skinny i need to eat a box of twinkie's and i called my brother crying. ( me and my siblings all kinda have a struggles when it comes to eating my sister binge eats and my brother has body dysmorphia so its hard for him) my brother even talked to my mom about it and nothing was done.
the thing is ive talked to my mom about it several times and she jumps to his defense every time when i told my mom i was having gender dysphoria she proceeded to say i was to young and when i broke down sobbing telling her i hate my appearance and i need help she didnt do anything she just told me to go to my room.
i can say though the only pros that ive noticed i have at my moms is that i have stuff. i have a 2 guitars a piano a big tv a pc the newest xbox ps4 iphone 14 big bed nice clothes anything a kid could ask for while at my dads i would most likely be sleeping in the living room? my dads more so on the lower class in a bit of a bad dangerous neighborhood and he would never take me anywhere i needed to go so why would i prefer there and not my moms?
my dad has no relationship with me and we bond over our love of music and not to mention my dads so homophobic its crazy. even though his sisters is literally a lesbian . but i can tell my dads trying and i want a bond with him you know? i want to be able to bond with both of my parents. my grandma has cancer and shes getting surgery this week and me and her dont have the best relationship and thats within reason but i regret not calling her back and spending time with her and i would hate if that happened to my dad.
so even though i have everything a kid could want my mom moved me out here when i have no family out here the only family out here for me is my mom and her boyfriend. At my dads theres my sister brother my cousin and everyone in between. i really want to be close to my dad and as far as i know im gonna finish freshman year move in with my dad for a bit and see how it is over the summer and then decide i just dont wanna hurt my mom in the process
be honest what would you guys do?
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2023.03.21 12:08 duffbrewerytour Something would watch me at my boyfriends house
I always believed in the paranormal, I’ve had experiences my whole life. I feel it’s a common thread in my family. Both my mother and grandmother are exactly the same. I was dating a guy in my early 20s. He was a little older and owned a beautiful old home. I remember seeing the exterior for the first time and just fell in love with it. That’s until I stepped inside, it was instant, that punch in the stomach feeling. I knew something was really off about this house. I didn’t say anything as it wasn’t my place, I just hoped the feeling would pass. I went over a few times but I wouldn’t stay the night.
The first time I stayed over my boyfriend went for a morning jog.This was the first time I was alone in the house. I decided to use this time to shower and get ready for the day. It was strange as soon as I got up to walk to the bathroom the feeling of being watched was extreme. I wasn’t wearing clothes and the feeling of needing to cover up was so strange. I brushed it off and jumped in the shower.
I felt the same feeling the whole time in the shower. Imagine showering in-front of a creepy stranger, that’s how it felt. I went to reach for the towel on the towel rack and couldn’t find it. Strange because that’s where it was before I began to shower, I made sure of it. I step out and it’s on the counter by the sink. I don’t know how it got there and that’s when I see it. A massive hand print on the steamed up mirror, it was clear as day and looked fresh. I absolutely freaked. The hand was elongated and almost claw like. I grabbed my towel and locked myself in the bedroom until my boyfriend returned.
There’s obviously a lot more to this story but I’ll leave it here for now. Let me know if you want to hear more.
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2023.03.21 12:08 ChampionshipOk1248 I blame my Dad for my dog dying
I don't know if I fully blame him or myself. I guess the guilt is mainly from the responsibility of a pet owner. Back in 2017, I was 14, and I found a stray dog walking on my street. Looked like a chihuahua mix. She had a collar and leash still on, but with no tag. At the time, we figured she got lost, but she was more than likely from someone dumping her on our street. I looked to see if anyone one was missing a dog. Eventually, she stayed with me and my family. My parents didn't want to keep her. At the time, we already had 2 dogs, but they soon warmed up to her, and we named her Lee. Had no idea how old she was, but she was a hyper dog. She became my dog, my very first dog, and she became my shadow, following me around everywhere. She was able to follow me without a leash eventually and ignored other dogs when off leash. She became a dog for hikes when my family and I'd go camping. She loved it, years go by, she was around when I had gotten my very first puppy to raise, till a week before Christmas Eve in 2019, I had noticed that she wasn't active like usual and was slow when following me, the next couple of days she hadn't eaten and was losing weight, that's when I told my parents that she needed to go to the vet, My mom told me to go ask my dad and see what his answer is, He said no, she doesn't need to go to the vet and that we don't need to waste the money( he's been like that with every pet) I got mad telling him so could die and He said then it happens. For the days after that I was furious about his answer, on that Thursday I told mom that I need to take her to the vet and that I'll go on my own and place the bill under their name at the vet, mom understood I wasn't going to stop so she took me to the vet , when we got there she told me to say to the vet (if they ask about the condition of my dog) that we just noticed yesterday to make it seem that we didn't do anything bad and the time I didn't understand why they wanted me to lie about it. The vet finally figured out what was wrong with her, they said that she had cut a deep hole in her eye with her dewclaw and that if we had taken her in sooner she would've got the eye removed and lived, but since my dad didn't want to waste money we took her in almost a week after me noticing it. With bads news the vet recommended that we put her down to end the amount of pain that she was in. I died abit when I heard that and that I was thinking was if I got her in sooner she would've live and at the same time I was furious. Once we finished at the vet we took her home to bury her in the backend with all of the other pets we buried. My bf helped me dig the hole and was understanding of my frustration and my grief. I never told my dad that I blamed him but over time I find myself to blame aswell I don't know why, I think that it's due to the whole being responsible for your pet. Not a day gose by with out me thinking of what could've happened if I took her in and if she would've still been her either way.
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2023.03.21 12:07 stingynettley More productive sessions at night?
Recently my therapist and I have occasionally been having session later in the evening around 7pm or 8pm.
It’s quite common during my sessions which are usually in the morning or early afternoon that I can become quite shut down. I get really anxious and have a lot trouble communicating which can really slow down a session. I’ve noticed in my later sessions though that pretty much all of them have felt productive. I don’t have anywhere near as much trouble talking, and will even go out of my way to talk when I usually wouldn’t say anything. I feel like I can be more honest and I just don’t feel as anxious.
I have a couple theories why my late sessions might be like this. First one is in simply tired, and just too tired to be as anxious. Second one is my ADHD meds have worn off, so I’m more likely to say things a little bit more impulsively when with meds I usually slow down and really consider what I’m going to say to the point of being too anxious to say anything.
I don’t really want to make all my sessions late ones because I do online therapy, and my family will be home during the late ones which always makes me nervous. I just want to make my day sessions more like my night ones, so I’m going to see if not taking my medication before a session makes a difference.
Not really a question here, but curious if anyone else had had a similar experience.
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